Help Me Get Pregnant!

From the moment you wake up to the moment you put your head to the pillow, do thoughts of booties, bottles and bibs occupy your mind? If they do, you’re not alone. Millions of women want to get pregnant. Some are able to do so more easily than others. For those who have trouble trying to conceive, “Help me get pregnant” has become somewhat of a mantra.

Are you one of the women who have been declaring, “Help me get pregnant!”? Is the one thing you want most in the world a beautiful baby to call your own? If you’ve been trying to get pregnant month after month, only to be crushed time and time again by negative pregnancy tests, there is some good news you’ll be happy to hear. A baby girl or boy may very well be in your future. You just need to understand what your body needs in order to conceive.

Put On Your Sherlock Cap

First and foremost, if you’ve been trying to get pregnant and have been unsuccessful up to this point, you need to figure out what is going on. At this point many men and women turn to a doctor to find out how to get pregnant. Let me tell you this… When you go to a doctor and say, “Help me get pregnant,” that doctor is usually going to approach it from a medical-only standpoint. This means tests (which are not bad in and of themselves). But what happens if the tests are inconclusive? And what if you don’t really need the fertility treatments the doctor advises? Isn’t it best to become pregnant naturally, the way your body was intended to?

The first thing I advise to women who are saying, “Help me get pregnant” is that they take a step back and take a look at the big picture. Look at everything and anything that may be getting in your way. The first step towards eliminating an obstacle is to discover it. How are your periods? Are they regular? If not, a hormone imbalance may be the culprit. How is your diet? Are you eating the right foods? If you want to become pregnant you need to make sure that your body is getting the nutrition it needs. After all, it takes a lot of work to create a baby. Your body might not cooperate with your desires until it feels that you are ready for it.

From the Inside Out

And that brings us to the body-mind connection. Your state of mind can actually impact your ability to conceive. If you’re running around the world at Mach 5 speeds, stressed beyond belief and not taking time for yourself, it’s time to take a step back and concentrate on you. You may not be able to put on the brakes completely, but ease off the accelerator a bit if you can. By combining physical health with emotional well being, you can increase your chances of conceiving the baby that you have been thinking of every day and night.

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  • ntombi Zwane April 12, 2011, 6:26 am

    Please help me to get pregnant. I was trying to get pregnant since 2009.

    Kind regards

    084 309 1111

  • Joanne April 12, 2011, 11:35 am

    Hi Ntombi: Please email us at amy [at] with your specific question and maybe we can help you out and point you in the right direction! Best wishes to you!

  • norma barajas November 15, 2011, 7:31 am

    About 1year ago or so i have a surgery called the leep and ever since then ive been having problems getting pregnant.. I already have 6kids and i definetlt want to have more!! Can you please please help anf tell me what i should do or take to get pregnant again.. Sincerly Norma

  • kelly December 9, 2011, 7:59 pm

    My boyfriend and I have been trying for 2 years to have a baby..and nothing isn’t happening. I am afraid it’s bcause I’ve had an abortion years ago. Which is something I deeply regret. I was too young at the time. I am;ways blaming myself while I can’t get pregnant. I was just curious as to what kind I doctor I go see and that can help me. I think one of my “callings” on life is to me a mother.

  • lynsey December 10, 2011, 7:38 pm

    Hi! My hubby and I have been trying to get pregnant since May. I went off of birth control then and did not have a period. My gyno gave me progesterone to jumpstart a period and it did, but I did not have another one. We did another round of progesterone followed by 100 mg clomid for 5 days. We followed all doctors “instructions” and on day 21 of my cycle we did bloodwork. My levels were not consistent with ovulation. Should I continue w/ clomid, or focus on WHY I’m not having a period? (I had a normal cycle prior to birth control, ALTHOUGH, while on birth control I began exercising and lost 100lbs I continue to exercise 45 minutes per day 7 days per week). Thanks so very much!!

  • Ileana December 25, 2011, 12:02 pm

    I had a tubeligation and will like financial help to have a tubel reversal. Who can I contact?

  • Mike March 31, 2012, 8:30 pm

    My wife and I have been trying to conceive for over a year now and have tried various alternative ways without success. We came across a website that helped with our struggle to get pregnant.
    We are now in our 3rd month of pregnancy, and without the use of fertility medications! If you would like to check this website out go to: I know we’re glad we did!

  • Marilou Gamoso April 1, 2012, 10:42 am

    Hi!my husband and i have been trying to get pregnant sin 2008,but i had a polysistic ovaries pls helf me to get preynant….

  • ernestinah July 16, 2012, 9:27 am

    Hi,I’ve been trying for a baby from 2007,I had an abortion after that I conceive again andhad a miscarage,I have irregular periods please help me

  • Ieasha foston August 8, 2012, 1:30 pm

    I really need help gettin pregant it seems like everytime I try it doesnt help can you please help me

  • brittany October 24, 2012, 12:42 am

    please help me to get pregnant. i have been try since 7 month. me and my boyfriend really want have a baby soon. everytime i try it doesnt help and can you help me please thank you so much.

  • Sage January 11, 2013, 8:14 pm

    I just got married recently and we want to start trying to have kids. I used to have ovarian cysts. But then, after being on birth control for a couple years, the cysts went away. I gained a lot of weight due to the birth control and just not eating right. I now have Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome. I never have a period, and the only time I do is when I’m on birth control. Please help me get pregnant!

  • rosie February 6, 2013, 5:41 pm

    Hi could u please try to help me, I had a misscarriage last end of october me and my husband was very upset about this but after we carried on trying for a baby since then it hasnt hapoened and its now been over a year before me and my husband was together I did have two abortions because I was too young I dont know if this would effect it. And also my husband has been told a few years ago now that he has low sperm count Me and my husband has tryed everything he takes vitamins and I take folic acid and eveningprimose oil too we have tryed diffrent positions and the obvulation kit test but nothing seems to be working, me and my husband are both getting very upset about this and stressed we keel blamimg our selves please help us.

  • Miriam March 7, 2013, 12:12 am

    hi… my name is miriam, i have been wishing and praying and trying to get pregnant for the past 3 yrs but its just not happening, my husband says its ok but its really stressing me. when i was a teenager i did abortion, i really regret and i wish i could take that back. please help me am 34 yrs old now.

  • latoya white April 7, 2013, 1:36 pm

    Hey iam latoya and i have been trying to get my periods are irregula if I’m not on birth control I don’t have a period.i dont know if i can have kids and i really want some…please help me. Thanks

  • latoya white April 7, 2013, 1:37 pm

    I ment pregnant

  • Cynthia September 20, 2013, 8:20 pm

    I really want to pregnant and ive been trying for almost 3 years now. My periods have been off a lot but I was pregnant once and it seemed so easy. I don’t understand why I can’t get pregnant anymore and it’s depressing that now that I’m ready it’s not happening. What can I do? What kindof doctor should I go to to find out what’s going on? Please help.

  • Joanne September 30, 2013, 10:32 am

    Hi Cynthia,

    I’m sorry to hear what you are going through. Talking to your doctor is a great first step, they will be able to rule some health issues out and refer you to a fertility specialist. Stay strong! We’re hear to support you

  • Tina Comfort October 11, 2013, 4:19 pm

    I was on your web site. My daughter and son- in -law have been trying to get pregnant for about 6 years now and no luck. They have been to a doctor and she has been on clomid and still nothing. She said she’s not going back to the doctor because it costs them 400 to 1000 dollars every time she go’s. is there some suggestions that you might have for them. She is taking folic acid, vitamin C & E. I read some where that these will help with her getting pregnant. We don’t know where to turn.

  • Joanne October 31, 2013, 4:12 pm

    Hi Tina,
    I would recommend for your daughter our Natural Cycle for Fertility Program. It’s designed for any fertility situation and any kind of fertility treatment your daughter may be taking. I understand how difficult the financial aspect of infertility can be, so maybe you can tell your daughter about It’s our sister site where we try to highlight as many deals and free resources related to fertility as we can find. Best wishes are with you and your daughter and son-in-law!

  • Briana Dixon January 7, 2014, 4:27 am

    Hi I am Briana and me and my boyfriend Chris been trying to have a baby for almost a year now and haven’t got any results.. so now we think we should turn to a doctor.. because we’re running out of ideas can anyone help us.

  • mawande mvuyana-radebe May 3, 2014, 11:46 am

    Can you please help us. We’ve been trying several times to having a child but there is nothing happening and this situation start to confuse our minds. Help please

  • Zee June 6, 2014, 5:49 pm

    Hi i’ve been tryng to get pregnant for about 2 years and nothing happened. I did go to doctor but still i have not become pregant. I need your help

  • jessica June 16, 2014, 12:09 pm

    i got a tubal in2007 and i got married in 2012 and my husband and i want to know if i can get pregant without having a tubal reveasal

  • Samantha godinez October 11, 2014, 10:12 pm

    Please help me I’ve been trying to get pregnant for 5years i can’t go to a doctor have no medical card and I’ve tried to get one it feels impossible to get one so i feel alone with this please help me i really want to get pregnant

  • Joanne October 13, 2014, 11:19 am

    Hi Samantha,

    Thank you for reaching out. Our free fertility relaxation program is incredibly helpful for any woman trying to conceive. You can access the download on our website here –

    The program is wonderful for reducing the negative effects of stress and promoting relaxation along the fertility journey. We hope that you enjoy it and please let me know if you have any other questions.

    Warm wishes,

  • breanna fulbright December 19, 2014, 2:03 pm

    Please help me get pregnant i realky want a child

  • Ntswaki March 25, 2015, 2:38 am

    I’m trying everything to conceive but its just not happening, what more can I do.

  • Joanne March 25, 2015, 1:21 pm

    Thanks so much for reaching out. Our free fertility relaxation program is incredibly helpful for any woman trying to conceive. You can access the download on our website here – The program works wonders at reducing stress and helping you to feel more in control of your mind and your body during your fertility journey. Please let us know if you have any other questions or if there’s anything else we can do to help, and we hope that you enjoy the program!

    Best wishes,

  • shanetta June 16, 2015, 1:37 pm

    I’ve been trying to get pregnant for bout a year not and I gave no luck a friend told me that I can try some stuff the will put in me but idk wat it is does anyone no what it’s calld

  • Joanne June 18, 2015, 12:13 pm

    Hi Shanetta,

    I’m sorry – I’m not sure what your friend was recommending but I would suggest giving our programs a try. You can sample our free fertility relaxation download and see how you like it and if it is helpful. You can find it here: Would you like to join our secret Facebook community? It’s a wonderful space for sharing and support and we’d be happy to send you an invitation. Simply drop a note to and we will get back to you. Please let me know if you have any questions or if there’s anything else that we can do to help!

    Best wishes ~

  • jennifer September 7, 2015, 12:27 am

    thanks to ojoman who has made me a mother and today i who was barren is now having a baby of my own, if any woman is looking for a way to get pregnant, then visit ojo via email: and you problem will be solved. pls hurry for he is powerful and truthful

  • rayann brewer October 27, 2015, 10:14 pm

    Me and my husband have been married for 7 years we want a baby please help us

  • june February 15, 2016, 2:04 am

    I dont know if am pregnant but i want a baby plz help me

  • meg March 3, 2016, 10:22 am

    Hi please help I’v been trying for 3years now with no luck me and my husband has been tested and both were told we were perfect and just to keep trying but its driving me crazy every one we know are having baby’s all we want is our own family please help!

  • Taylor March 5, 2016, 3:00 pm

    Hi! My name is Taylor. My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for over a year now. No luck .. I have seen doctors, none of them seem to help. They all tell me the same thing. Which I implement, to the best of my ability. I’ve taken supplements, tracked everything. I cannot get pregnant. I’m running out of options, and don’t know what to do. PLEASE help!

  • Joanna Castallano July 4, 2016, 4:14 am

    Me and my husband have been married three years and still can’t get pregnant please email me if u no any doctors that can help or if u have some tips other then the fertility kit .. Thanku

  • Amy July 5, 2016, 10:05 am

    Hi Joanna,

    Thank you so much for reaching out. I am so sorry that your journey has been a difficult and painful one. I know how heartbreaking and frustrating it is to go month after month without success. I would just remind you to be gentle with yourself. Taking some time to heal your body and mind after such a difficult time can be just the thing that you need to recharge and rejuvenate yourself mentally, emotionally, and physically.

    There is hope – we hear from so many women in situations similar to yours who were successful using our guided visualization as a tool to finally get pregnant. One woman went through 2 years of IVF before she started using our programs and she became pregnant after just one cycle of using our meditations! It doesn’t happen this easily for everyone, but just know that we’ve had thousands of success stories around the globe.

    You may try our free fertility relaxation download and see how you like it and if it is helpful. You can find it here:
    I also recommend our blog, which is full of advice from Joanne as well as many expert guest bloggers. You can read it here:

    We also have a top secret Facebook group that I’d be happy to send you an invitation to join. Lots of great sharing and learning from each other going on.

    How else can we help?


  • boitumelo October 6, 2016, 6:57 am

    hi my name is boitumelo 4years ago i had an abortion Its been 2years an nine months 19days since I stopped preventing I don’t know if maybe having an abortion could have damaged something it’s been close to three years now trying to concieve please help me an my fiancee want a baby now am scared that he will try an have a baby outside am just 21yrz but i wish I never had an abortion I feel pregnant now but am not sure coz it could be my mind playing games in me like be plz

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