Guest blog by Nancy Mae, Creator and Author of The Energetic Fertility Method™
Have you ever considered that your desire to have a child is a request bound of energy? Everything is energy; the words we say, our pets and houseplants, the clothes we wear, foods we eat and the electronics we use. Even our desire to become pregnant is energy. Without energy, we would cease to exist. The great thing about energy is that you can learn to harness it for fertility. You can direct it to bring yourself into wholeness for you and your future child.
Considering that everything we’re made of and everything around us is energy, it’s important to become aware of things that could be affecting your energy as it relates to fertility. One of the best ways to learn to shift your energy is by understanding potential energetic blocks that can affect fertility since only five percent of our thoughts are conscious while the other 95 percent are unconscious.
In my practice, I see many energetic issues that can affect the ability to bring in a child. These are things that cause energy to get stuck, be stagnant or leave an energetic imprint. Here are seven common energetic issues that can affect fertility:
1. A less-than-positive relationship with your body
2. Doubting that your body can conceive, carry a pregnancy and birth a child
3. Our own and other people’s expectations, judgments and frustrations
4. Fear of connecting – with ourselves and others
5. Unresolved grief or anger from past miscarriages, childhood trauma or loss of a loved one
6. Energetic residue from past intimate partners
7. Too much doing – not enough being
These things can take up a lot of energetic space making it more challenging to conceive. To create something new, like space for a baby, it helps to shift the energy in a positive manner.
Here are three simple tips to help you alter your energy for fertility:
1. Shift what you say to yourself.
Energy follows thought. Be mindful of what you tell yourself and do what you can to start shifting how you relate to those thoughts. Become a cheerleader for yourself.
2. Create closure.
Events from the past can influence our fertility. It’s great to have closure with these events. Perhaps write a letter or create a memory box to have closure with an event.
3. Slow down.
Even just a little bit of slowing down can make a huge difference when you want to bring in a child. Take some time to be out in nature, take a bath or meditate.
Learning how energy affects fertility can be the key to bringing in your future child. I invite you to start becoming more aware of what you say to yourself, things that are in need of closure in your life and when and if you allow yourself to slow down – all things that are important to take note of when you yearn for a healthy fertility journey.
Nancy M. Mae is a life transitions coach and energy practitioner. She has taken her experience with infertility and combined it with her formal education in the fields of psychology and energy medicine to create the Energetic Fertility Method™. She resides in the San Francisco Bay Area with her daughters. Visit her online at www.nancymae.com